Getting Married

I just have to say, this topic couldn't be more perfect for me.

What I'm about to share is a very special story. It's my love story. Its how I found the love of my life. At first, I didn't know I had found him. It took time, but I am so thankful for all the little things that brought us together. It's kind of an insane story actually......
When I was in the 5th grade it was announced that I would start going to a different elementary school. I  was SO ANGRY. I can't even tell you how many times I cried over that when I was 11. I finally realized it was inevitable, and I prepared myself to go to a new school in August. It was then that I met Hunter for the very first time. In fact, he sat next to me in class.... and I even told him his desk was messy... (what a kind soul I was.)
All through middle school and high school we were in classes together. He didn't pay attention to me, and I didn't pay attention to him. I went to high school dances with many of his friends, but Hunter and I weren't really all that great of pals, we just knew of each other. Each of us dated other people in high school. Then, Hunter left for a LDS mission. I later choose to serve a mission, and we were called to the same place. We became friends when we were in the same area, but didn't think anything about it. We were both strictly focused on teaching others about Christ and His gospel.
When I returned from my mission in September, Hunter and I started talking again.... in fact, the day after I got home we ran into each other in the store and I met Hunter's whole family. When I left the store, Hunter's dad told him that he should try taking me on a date.....eventually that date led to another date, and another date, and it continues on to our engagement.



There are so many details I left out, but you get the idea. :)

 

As Hunter and I were looking at rings, we kept looking at extravagant rings that we wanted. I think one of the best pieces of advice I got was given by my future sister in law, she said, " Four months down the road, the ring won't matter. What will matter is the two of you and your relationship." I've come to see how true that counsel is. Yes, you want to make your wedding nice, and have the nicest rings, and the prettiest reception, but when it all comes down to it the most important thing is the two of you who have promised to love, cherish, and help each other through everything in life.  What matters is the love you have promised to nurture so it can continue to grow.  So when it comes to getting married, enjoy the day, enjoy the reception, but most of all focus on the promises you are making and the one you are making them with. 

 

-Lacey